I'm Sure My Ex-Employer Rubbed My Body And Made Me Impotent – Benue Man Laments

A guy who alleged that he has been made impotent after his manhood turned into tampered with, has spoken on his ordeal. 

Some youths in Benue State set houses and a church ablaze over allegations by a few men that a syndicate turned into making them impotent in the Guma Local Government Area of the kingdom. Nnongu Francis, 25, one of the men who alleged that their genitals had been additionally affected, tells JOHN CHARLES how he thinks the hassle began

How do you feel?

I’ve been feeling ordinary when you consider that this component occurred to me; I can't have an erection. I don’t sense like a man again.

What took place to you?

A guy who devoted suicide become answerable for my trouble. He touched me on the night the trouble began. I was with him due to the fact he had promised to assist me. He promised to assist me get recruited into the Nigerian Air Force. I used to work for him on his farm. His younger brother is my friend and we used to be collectively. When I desired to go for the recruitment exercising on September 24, 2020, he asked how organized I was for the exercising and I advised him I strongly believed that God might assist me and that the whole thing was inside the fingers of God.

What made you sense that some thing became achieved in your manhood?

 
The man said that considering I used to assist him on his farm, he would assist me. He later requested me to come back to his residence at night time. He gave me a calabash and asked me to apply it to fetch some water from a circulate. When I again from the movement, he poured some thing into the water and requested me to bathe with the water, which I did. Then he told me now not to have intercourse with a girl for the next six days and I also complied. Some days later, on October 10, he referred to as me again, and requested if I complied with the commands he gave me. I stated yes. On that day, I bathed and not anything changed into wrong with me.

Later inside the night time, which was a Saturday, he asked me to peer him. When I were given there, he requested for some thing that we name Chullai in Tiv and I stated I didn’t have it but promised to get it. Unfortunately, I couldn’t get it and he asked me to come back again to him that equal night. He gave me N50 and directed me to in which I would get Chullai. I offered it and took it to him. Then he requested me to fetch some water. He introduced out a calabash and poured the water in it. He positioned the Chullai inside the water and put a few in his palm. He put something in his mouth, chewed and poured the liquid on my chest, returned and brow. He did that three instances and as he was rubbing it on my brow, he stated I should hug him. I hugged him. The following morning, he took me to the place wherein I fetched water from and rubbed the concoction on my head, legs and shoulders, and said I should go.

What befell thereafter?

When I were given home, I determined that I may want to now not have an erection and I informed my neighbour about it. He informed me to exercising a few endurance. I also called the person and advised him that I could not have an erection but he informed me no longer to worry.

The protesters were talking about lacking genitals, does that imply the hassle isn't always approximately disappearance but inability to have an erection?

I can urinate however my manhood has shriveled and it isn't always getting tough. I defined what happened to the man’s younger brother who's my friend and he said he would ask his brother approximately it. Later, the person called me and said not anything could happen to me. He stated it happened to some different humans some years again and that he solved the hassle for the victims. So he assured me that I might be first-class however that I should no longer tell all and sundry approximately it, specially the police because it had took place earlier than and he admitted that it was a mistake. But I had informed my elder brother, sister and uncle.

 
 
My elder brother additionally requested him however he was advised to be affected person with them (the man’s own family) until the next day. Later, they known as me and stated I can buy something.

For what number of days did this go on?

It befell within two days, exactly October 10 and 11, 2020. But on October eleven, the man dedicated suicide. Before then, he had referred to as to tell me and my brother that my manhood would be restored to its normal kingdom. He called me extra than four times on that day, most effective for me to listen that he hanged himself tomorrow.

 
Are you saying you haven't had an erection due to the fact then?

My penis is not getting hard.

Are you married?

I became married. We are separated and feature one baby.

How did you get to realize that you couldn't have an erection?

Since the day he rubbed some thing on me, I’ve now not had an erection. I even have no longer felt sexually aroused. I even have a lady friend and after I requested her to come back, I nevertheless could not have an erection. Till now, even if I awaken in the morning and I’m imagined to have an erection, I don’t have it.

When did your spouse go away you?

My spouse left me in October 2018 and it was because of a minor misunderstanding among us.

Were you able to have intercourse before the person rubbed the concoction on you?

Before the incident, I become having sex very well. Towards September finishing, my lady friend spent an entire week with me and we had intercourse in the course of her live. But after the incident, one among my girlfriends visited me however my penis did now not reply. I’m very certain of it; I’m 100 in line with cent sure of what I’m saying.

Do you understand if there are others with similar cases in your network?

It befell to such a lot of people a few years returned and that they apprehended the person accountable. He promised to restore them and he did. The circle of relatives of this guy pleaded with me and promised that I might have an erection again. They begged me now not to tell everyone. They said if I advised every person about it, their family would be in problem.

 
But now the own family of the person accountable for my trouble is now accusing me of killing him. They stated I changed into best pretending and have threatened to kill me for accusing him wrongly.

Now that the person has died, what do you propose to do? Are the police aware?

The police stated given that the man is dead, they don’t have whatever to say. They said we need to talk to the circle of relatives. But the own family said they might sue us; they know I don’t have money.

Have you been to the hospital to look a health practitioner approximately your condition?

No, I actually have now not long past.

What if it is a clinical situation?

I even have no longer long past to hospital however I’m not a kid that could now not know while some thing is wrong with them.

Some homes, along with a church were burnt down by a few irritated youths; does it have something to do along with your case?

The man that turned into responsible for my impotence as soon as stated that he turned into an agent for the owner of the constructing. He stated he became operating for the person. The first time it happened to 2 men, the man begged that they must now not kill him and that he could name his boss to restore their health. When they asked who his boss changed into, he cited a person in Abuja.

He called the person at the telephone and they talked on the cellphone; the humans with him heard their communique and the man confident that he might make matters right. The guy has now been arrested.

Are the elders and chiefs of the network aware about all these items?

Yes, they're aware however they said they were now not knowledgeable in time.

What if it's far your libido this is low?

How? Before now, despite the fact that I became simplest washing my manhood with cleaning soap and water whilst bathing, I could have an erection. I have tried many things to make it hard however it isn't responding.

What do you want?

All I want is for my manhood in order to come to be difficult again and for you to assist me tell the entire international to return to my resource due to the fact I don’t recognize what to do.

Do you have any location in thoughts wherein you suspect you might get an answer?

Yes, if I desire I ought to get a man of God who might pray for me and repair my manhood.

There are reviews that a pastor claims he has the energy to treat impotence…

I went to the church and the pastor charged me N16,000 and requested me to bring some other matters. He said he could want those things to heal me but I didn’t have the money so I didn’t pass there again.

Is it the church that became burnt down?

Yes, that is the church.

Do you certainly think the pastor may want to help?

Yes. When I went there, I noticed him getting to someone with a similar case. He stated the man or woman had misplaced his manhood for decades and that he could get his manhood to feature well again. The man or woman later confirmed that his manhood had been restored. But I couldn't return to the person earlier than he attacked due to the fact that I didn’t have money.